Weird personalities

What I have discovered about myself is that if a person is not like me, I find them weird. I know, that this is a very strange character trait.

Nevertheless, I have a few examples here;

• People who have a completely different style

• People who are too fat

• People who have a completely different view of everything

• People who don't attach much importance to looks

• And the biggest problem is that I quickly find people strange if they don't have a similar personality to me

Just a few gestures that I wouldn't make myself could disgust me in a person.

I like to surround myself with pretty, intelligent and likeable people. If you're not a pretty person, whether you're a man or a woman, I won't want to spend time with you in my free time.

I also have the feeling far too often that something is wrong with a person. For example, if they look around dreamily, if they make strange movements with their face or have a strange vocabulary, I immediately think that this person has an illness like autism.

For me, the "normal image" of a person is myself. But I have to learn that this is not the case. There are so many personalities in this world who are just as good as mine. I also have to learn to like people with completely different interests and hobbies.

I've also noticed that I place far too much importance on appearance. If you have a haircut that I don't like or if you wear pants that I don't like, I would prefer not to be seen with you. I place far too much value on what others think of me. If I'm out with a woman I don't find particularly attractive, I don't like to be seen because I think other people will judge me on that basis.

This is a very private topic and of course I know that my opinion is fundamentally reprehensible. I'm in the process of getting used to these things and attaching less importance to what others think of me. I hope I haven't offended anyone with this blog.

I would also like to point out that every person is perfect the way they are. Whether thin or fat, black hair or blond hair, short or tall or funny or not. My opinion doesn't really count and you couldn't care less. Nevertheless, I only associate myself with a certain group of people.

Please don't forget that I am only expressing MY opinion on this topic. Feel free to write your opinion in the comments if you like. 

All the best

Lleyton