Attachment issues

I realize that as soon as I get along well with a female, I immediately become dependent on her. When she writes me a message, I'm immediately happier than before.

So I draw my happiness from other people. We don't have to argue about that, but it's not healthy at all. This character trait comes from not knowing your own worth.

You think that if you have a woman by your side, you've achieved a great goal in life.

But you still have to learn to be satisfied with yourself.

You've probably met someone, for example on a dating app or social media or even in public. So you get in touch, both parties find each other attractive and you vibe with each other. After a while, your partner's behavior changes. As soon as this happens, you immediately think "what have I done wrong again".

The sad thing is that this generation would rather ignore each other than talk to each other and try to keep the relationship going. You can think of it like an "old-fashioned scale".

One party gives less on one side, the other person gives more on the other side because he thinks he has to do more for the other person to get her interested again.

But as you can imagine, this is exactly the wrong approach. The "scales" are now very unbalanced. So if your partner gives you less attention than you would like, there are two possibilities. Either you speak to them about it or you give your partner the same attention. That way, the "scales" are balanced again.

Unfortunately, in this generation, you really do have to do this. Whether there is still true love or whether the whole thing is just pleasure remains to be seen.

Please don't forget that I am only expressing MY opinion on this topic. Feel free to write your opinion in the comments if you like.

All the best

Lleyton