Love

Love is such a big topic that you could write thousands of blogs about it.

I am a person who likes to show my love for other people often. Probably too much sometimes.

The question that many people my age ask themselves is whether they have ever been in love. I don't know if there is an answer to that question. Everyone loves their mother or father. But that is love that doesn't demand anything.

Everyone has met a girl or a boy in their life who they really liked. Maybe you were already in a relationship or are currently in one. The question you can ask yourself is whether you loved this person unconditionally.

The answer to this question is usually "no." It is difficult or impossible to love a "stranger" unconditionally. You expect a lot from your partner. Most people even expect too much. You have to pay attention to this person, spend time with them, take them out, have conversations with them and argue with them.

For me, I develop "feelings" for a person pretty quickly. I quickly think that I'm in love. However, if I'm left, I don't mourn the person for long. I wish I were more nonchalant, but unfortunately I'm not at all. I always hope that I can give my partner the world, I wish I could experience everything in the world with a woman, tell her all my problems, travel around the world with her and the most important thing is that I feel comfortable with her.

The whole "talking stages" have never really lasted long for me. In the first few weeks that I get to know the woman, both parties think that we are completely in love. After a while, in my case, the woman starts to have doubts. She withdraws because she knows that things could get serious. Many people are afraid of this step, including me. I have a strong feeling that many young people today are not mentally ready to be in a relationship. Of course, these are just my experiences, but I have never had a really good one. I see the same pattern again and again. At the beginning of the "getting to know each other" phase, you don't think about the future or worry. After meeting a few times, however, this changes; one party loses feelings or no longer feels comfortable in the situation. Many also say that they need to work on themselves. But many don't understand that this can sometimes be better when done together. Why can't we just help each other and build each other up together? Why do you have to break off contact to "concentrate on yourself"?

For me, the dream of "love" would be that you trust each other and don't run away immediately if something isn't quite right. So you go from woman to woman and the same thing always happens. I wish I could feel as comfortable with a woman as I feel with my mother. I would like to have things in common, the same sense of humor and the same attitude to life.

THIS MESSAGE IS FOR EVERYONE, IF YOU LIKE SOMEONE, PLEASE TRY TO SOLVE THE PROBLEMS AND DO NOT RUN AWAY FROM THEM. DO NOT LOSE PATIENCE WITH SOMEONE SO EASILY. CLEAR UP THE THINGS THAT BOTHER YOU.

All the best, Lleyton.